I think the part of this coming out process I'm totally unsure of is that simply I've always equated being "out" with my fragility of being who I am.

And then the obvious (most choice for most out) is to be out so they can have not a true sense of self but a reason for their goals in life, more specifically what the life goals look like and who they are with.

And I still don't know that answer myself as I start tripping on this first relationship that appears to have taken off with my feet still at the gate.

I don't know where to start.